Where do I start..
People lie. That’s the cold harsh honest truth in this life. That’s reality. Whether may it be for a good reason or its to keep someone from getting hurt. Or if its for one person’s own benefit. It really doesn’t matter what lies behind it but the main point is we all do lie.
What i hate the most though is sometimes it goes way beyond the line. People abuse one person just cause they think he or she won’t know the truth. What you dont know won’t kill you right? To tell you the truth, it hurts more and will kill that person more once they found out that what has really been going on.
People have to take in consideration the circumstances or choices that they make. It’s either they man up or be a mature person to tell the cold truth rather than keep a person in the dark.
I, for one, knows how it feels. What hurts the most is you blind yourself with the truth as well just so you do not get hurt. You make excuses for that person. You lie even to yourself just so you won’t feel the pain. Question is, does it really help? It will get us thru a day or two, but then there will be sleepless nights, endless questions.
I am ending this short piece with a quote that i have always loved from Grey’s. I believe this and this has somehow help me to stay away from lying especially to those who matters to me the most..
“The most hurtful kind of lies are the ones delivered by the people you care about the most. It makes you doubt everything you know and makes you wonder why you care so much and worst of all, it puts you in the position of deciding whether to tell them you know they’re lying or act like you’re too dull to even know the difference. Keep this in mind, the next time you lie to someone who cares about you, because more often than not, they know, and it hurts a lot.” – Grey’s Anatomy
For you all that hates being lied to, please do know your worth. Especially if it goes beyond the limit. Never make excuses for them and never ever lie to yourself just so you could numb the pain or escape it. No. Never ever. We are beautiful people that deserves the honest truth. No matter how painful it is. It’s better to know that in the end we are worth the truth than being lied to.